Saturday, 3 January 2009

唔好咁啦 ...T_T...


唉,前幾天心情唔好的故事。
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今個星期一的的凌晨我仲係電腦埋頭苦幹中,成5點幾至訓。(定係七點呢...忘記左 @_@)
訓前我係FB度見到班女仔既留言問,做乜唔放我地一齊映既靚相出黎呀。

話說幾星期前幫忙朋友拍佢生日會的宣傳片,我就係拍攝時間識左班可愛既女仔。
個日我帶左部 Fuji 7s係身,又剛收到10盒film 作為聖誕禮物,勁身痕想玩。

拍攝都差不多完晒,我地d貪靚女仔們仲係度左映左映好開心,入到fitting room 度又映。
我貪玩,就話:想合照呀,我洗唔洗脫呀?
女仔:好呀。
映完一個又映第二個,由於映出來的相大家都好可愛,有幾個女仔己經話想買番部機。fitting room 內無男仔係度,咁我地玩到忘左形就話,不如一齊映張半裸遮住胸部啦,於是大家當時好開心咁映左啦。真係好靚同好開心既時刻。(都有女仔話唔制架,咁佢就幫我地係門口睇著,男生必近!)

有女仔怕男朋友看到會唔仲意,所以我話唔會放出黎既。會個別send番比佢。最後我只放左我自己的相在FB。幾日後看到女仔既留言問d相做乜唔放出,咁我又留言問有無人反對,都過左成個幾星期無人覆,咁就係係凌晨時份,見到有一個女仔留話,ok架。咁我就拿拿聲放出黎,我係caption度有留「如果覺得不想,我立刻移走」。

第二朝我還未訓醒,J打來話有女仔打比佢,而且因為太緊張而哭了,咁想我即刻remove D相,我未醒都知道大鑊啦!咁我即爬起身即去delete。同時收到女仔的留言,佢竟然係同我say sorry ,話知唔開我事,但佢好怕,因為已經有人騷擾佢。我即覆佢話千萬個唔好意思,不過佢再覆我時個FB ac.己經block 晒所有人。唉.........

原來朋友話我個日上左高登討論區,仲比人貼埋相作埋故仔......真係啤一聲。d相本黎己經係加密左,o仲明顯係有人hack 左個幾張相,因為連delete左既相都有條不滅既link...勁可怕。呢種手法十足十d八卦雜誌亂作一樣,D人成日話咩香港無文化,香港d新聞係八卦,真係唔知到底係supply 定demand個邊互相支持......嘿!

而我極懷疑係那個發放的人似係我的friend list 內的陌生朋友,我呢個白痴之前唔用腦咁add人終於出事。雖然呢件事唔係我做既,但我就有份,我都有負責,我又唔知發放既人係邊個,咁我唯有先暫停我的fb,lock晒d野,再係個friend list 度找d唔熟既人黎delete。都有朋友問我做乜add 左佢又delete,無計呀...因為d相比人濫用左,我自己比人講就算,但係連累到其他人就唔得!所以唔好意思都要delete架啦!

唉,我都唔覺得要強調那些係唔係咸相,各人諗法唔同我阻止唔到。三島由紀夫在《假面的告白中》寫過,他看著聖女貞德的畫像手淫。咁到底聖女貞德的畫像的係咪咸相呢,真係討論黎都side氣。

不過今次我真係有d內疚,因為我咁白痴而連累到人地,仲要人地講唔好意思而唔係鬧我,不如你鬧我一餐啦,你失蹤左我地成班朋友好擔心你架...>_<....

12 comments:

the sleeper said...

I think you did nothing wrong in this incident. But Facebook is such a horrible place. I don't like seeing every friend's photos and stuffs there. And I don't like my friends to see as well. Facebook makes it so easy for everyone to see the updates on someone. And there is no difference between a "real" friend and "fake" friend. It's a very weird phenomenon to me. I hate Facebook from the bottom of my heart.

Jason Lau said...

Let treat it as a lesson learning.

Let think what you can learn in this lesson.

All the best 2009 !
A person u don't know.

野孩子 said...

電腦檔案因為有無限量複製呢個特性,
係網上每upload一個私人資料出去,
就好似係太空丟左一張紙出去一樣,
係永遠收唔番,三五七年後,
無緣無故又可以o係網上走番出o黎。

網上嘅空間其實同條街無o羊分別,
我覺得好多人無呢個概念。

所以我地首先要學識o既,
就係點樣保護自己。


野孩子上

小丁 siuding said...

野孩子,Jason,
我知架啦,我呢個白痴係學左一課,會乖d,不過我自己放得出黎既自己相就ok啦,因為未有可以傷我心既「惡果」出現,我唔包將來有無,但係我自己做的事情自己負責,^_^
這是作為白痴既負責心 ^_^

Sleeper,
完全反對與完全讚成都不會是事實的全部,灰色的地帶最有趣,越是危險越覺得刺激,越令人以為,或想嘗試誇越。
一個媒介,工具,software或一個平台的進步與否,永不是因為它本身的科技與工能,而是人本身的質素 ^_^

至少我暫時仍然是好喜歡用facebook ^_^

許港生 said...

工具是中性的,可惜人心卻難測,唯有做到害人之心不可有,防人之心不可無。

謝謝你的成日快樂,祝你都天天開心!

小丁 siuding said...

今日shopping後的心情勁好,
士氣高逆市升到8萬幾點。 XD
thanks for yr msg.

siuming said...

其實我都有睇到果個post, 睇到條題就已經[仆街喇]咁, 真係有人會做咁多咁既野.....

Alan Sing said...

總之萬事小心啦....fb唔好再亂擺啲唔止妳一個人既nude photo喇...fb真係一個太易既medium喇...所以好多時好易就俾人拎走啲相...

Sue Wai said...

下次小心d,口頭問清楚每個人就得啦,始終唔係個個人都成日上facebook

the sleeper said...
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赤兔 said...

咸涩的人八卦的人无聊的人一大堆,我从来不将自己私密相放上网。。。这样最安全!

Telephone fung said...
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